I've read quite a few posts here about people who are, like I did, making their way towards full incontinence, and I thought I'd share what worked for me about 10 years ago.īriefly, my desire to be incontinent was driving me insane and getting stronger - I was totally obsessed with it and was spending huge amounts of time thinking about it and browsing online at sites that dealt with it and the obsession was negatively affecting my whole life, making me feel very depressed and desperate.